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    <loc>https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/blog-by-cher/face-mask-or-security-blanket-how-to-help-kids-when-they-are-fearful-of-germs</loc>
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      <image:caption>Talk to your child about germs in a positive way</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Do you have a child who is reluctant to take off their mask? They may be experiencing anxiety about being judged for their looks. Or perhaps they have gotten comfortable with wearing a face shield over the past two years. Many kids are hiding behind their masks and it can be a very difficult thing for kids to overcome. In this article, let's discuss some ways that you can help your child feel more comfortable in their own skin. Also, let's explore the causes of this anxiety around appearance, and I will offer some helpful tips for reducing these feelings.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/blog-by-cher/three-steps-to-level-up-your-attitude-of-gratitude</loc>
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      <image:title>Blogs By Cher - 3 Steps To A Blessing Centered Attitude of Gratitude - Pursuing gratitude helped me be more solution-focused because I avoid  having a problem centered attitude. Rather I have a blessing centered attitude. There are three simple steps I developed that builds  what I call A Blessing Centered Attitude of Gratitude</image:title>
      <image:caption>1. Live in each moment with a grateful heart 2. Recall and relive special moments often 3. Tell others the reason you are grateful for them.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blogs By Cher - 3 Steps To A Blessing Centered Attitude of Gratitude - Oftentimes, I will pause and take in the energy of the space where I am.  I do this by taking a deep breath and noticing all that is around me. Noticing all that I see, hear, feel and taste. I say to myself, “I am grateful for this perfect moment.”  When I do that, no matter where I am, my attitude shifts and problems seem to drift away. My total focus is on the blessings that I have in each precious moment.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blogs By Cher - 3 Steps To A Blessing Centered Attitude of Gratitude - I hold myself accountable to do this by keeping a google sheet available to open at any given time on my phone. Whenever there is a special moment I want to remember I will type in the date and a few words about the moment in that google document. Later, I read what I wrote and recall the memory in detail so my mind will be able to revisit that for years to come.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Since I've done this I can travel back in time and relive entire memories again and again in my mind. It is rewarding and empowering. I invite you to adopt this practice in the year to come. And to level up you gratitude even more, whenever you have the opportunity, share the memory with another. This will further cement that moment in your memory. That way you can be filled with gratitude again and again whenever you revisit of that memory.  Explore your own way of recalling your grateful moments, but make sure you do! Our mind will remember the things that we value. We place value on things by giving it the attention that it deserves so our mind knows that it matters. This goes for our memories as much as it does for our actions. By paying attention and replaying a special moment you are telling yourself that this memory matters.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blogs By Cher - 3 Steps To A Blessing Centered Attitude of Gratitude - In episode 95 of my podcast: Parenting with The Focused Mindset I shared  a moment I had while watching my daughter play volleyball. It was a magical moment. But truthfully I could have used any moment of my day to illustrate how using these three simple steps have leveled my gratitude. I have felt a higher level of contentment and peace. After practicing these steps for the past 12 months, there is a realization that lives within me of how life is a gift and the moments we are giving are meant to be treasured.</image:title>
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    <loc>https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/blog-by-cher/thirteen-and-dreaming</loc>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/blog-by-cher/eyeliner-builds-confidence-a-solution-focused-mindset-going-back-to-school</loc>
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    <lastmod>2024-08-26</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blogs By Cher - Eyeliner Builds Confidence? A Solution Focused Mindset Going Back To School - My daughter walked up to me and announced, “I need eyeliner. Can we buy some?” My head turned. This was a new request from my 13 year old so I asked.  “What makes you want that all of the sudden?”  She answered, “My friend said she feels 50% more confident when she wears eyeliner to school.” I gave a chuckle, but Bella wasn't laughing.  “Mom, I'm dealing with a lack of confidence about starting 8th grade and want to do something about it.”</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blogs By Cher - Eyeliner Builds Confidence? A Solution Focused Mindset Going Back To School - Now you may be thinking, “Cher! You teach this stuff every day! Why didn't you know this!” The truth is, I was too close to the situation to see the bigger picture without some outside guidance. I needed to be equipped with tools so I could choose the best response to my daughter's negative self-talk. I needed help so that I could move from correcting her, to accepting where she was at that moment so that I could help her move to a better mental place.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blogs By Cher - Eyeliner Builds Confidence? A Solution Focused Mindset Going Back To School - After some thought and planning, it was decided. I would wait for a peaceful moment and engage her in conversation. By now, I suspected that entering the new school year was triggering this negativity.  So one night before bed I said, “It seems like you are feeling anxious about how school will be this year.” I was careful with my tone of voice and then waited. She took a minute to think and then said. “I am thinking about it a lot.”  So I asked her what she had been thinking and slowly she began to share.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blogs By Cher - Eyeliner Builds Confidence? A Solution Focused Mindset Going Back To School - Weeks went by and I never heard another negative self put-down from Bella.  She still had insecurities but now she was working on solutions rather than letting herself focus on the fear.  As much as I wanted to solve this problem for her, I knew she needed to think it through herself. Once in a while I gently nudged her by asking, “What do you need? How can I help?”  On the day that my daughter figured out that the cure-all was eyeliner, she also realized she was dealing with a larger emotion. The lack of confidence moving into her next grade. This was a BIG WIN!  And I knew what to do. I took her shopping for eyeliner! And on that shopping trip we talked about tons of other strategies she can use to have more confidence. She was open and willing to talk to me and shared with me ideas that she felt would work. She even announced. “I already feel more confident, even without eyeliner because I know my friends will like me just for being me.”</image:title>
      <image:caption>Thank goodness finally saw deeper than the surface. It was hard to hear my daughter say such negative things!  Still, I was able to step back and use solution-focused skills rather than be overly emotional.</image:caption>
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